How to Increase your Success with Women

• Approach. If you are interested in her, then you must approach. You cannot let fear or insecurity become your master, and you cannot hope to achieve any success if you do not muster the inner courage to approach. Disregard what you know about “leagues”, and approach with confidence in yourself. Let go of any anticipated outcomes, and know that you can carry on and be just happy even if rejected.

• Place her on Your Level. Many men give far too much credit to the women of their interest. They are not goddesses, nor princesses, nor anything beyond a human being. They have faults, countless of them, just as you. They have insecurities, they make mistakes, and they are likely just figuring out life as much as you are. If you see her as a person on your level (no matter how attractive her body may appear – yes, even beautiful women are insecure – sometimes more than any other), you’ll be more likely to have success.

• Don’t Placate. Don’t be overly agreeable. If you disagree with a perspective she voices, express so, just as you might to a friend or family member. Be respectful, but stand strong and true to your own opinions and beliefs. Do not agree with her if you truly do not, and do not supplicate her with great deals of favors or complements. If you bend over backwards, you’ll be well on your way to being used and discarded at a later time.

• Don’t shower in gifts. Movies teach us that teddy bears and roses are the way to a girls heart. This is furthest from the truth. An attractive woman is likely approached daily, and has a myriad of different men willing to sacrifice money or time to be with them. Giving gifts (say, unless a valid birthday, ect) can make one appear desperate, and can often back fire in ways that are unintended.

• Crush your desperation. If you are “caught up” on a single girl, if you are “desperate” for a relationship, then you are setting the foundation for failure. You must detach and realize that no woman – no person, irregardless of gender – can make or break your qualification as a human being. She, as pretty or amazing or kind or sweet or smart as she may be, is not all that and a bag of chips. You are you forever, with you, you’ve been born, and with you, you’ll die. No other person is going to make or break the party.

• Don’t chase. Set the frame. Don’t work to seek her approval. Have her seek to earn your approval. Many men set themselves up to be qualified by her. She is not the all-knowing opinion of validity or invalidity. You are valid. You are more than valid. You must think of yourself as a catch. There are many women who would like to be with you. Have them chase you – and make the choice that you want for yourself.

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