The Approach

Every authority I ever read regarding meeting women says just approach her, the worst thing that she can say is “NO”. Well, actually, the worst thing she can say is, “That’s him officer, he is the one that did it.” Compared to that, getting shot down and having to walk away embarrassed isn’t a big deal. Most successful people in sales or marketing will tell you that you have to go through hundreds of no’s to get to a yes. Chicks are simply your customers, and you want their business.

THE HELLO

The most practical approach is to simply walk up to her confidently and say, “Hello, my name is (insert your name here).” Hopefully you get the AA response where everyone at the table shouts out “hello (insert name here).” But chances are you will get one of two responses; she will barely acknowledge your existence then turn back to her friends and ignore you, or she will say hello and wait for you to tell her why you are standing there.

If she says hello, then you better prepare a stated purpose for being there. Since you have already started on the direct approach, continue with it. Say something like she is attractive and you wanted to meet her. Remember, sincerity is the key to the direct approach, so if you can fake that you are well on your way. If she smiles at your complement, then ask her if you can sit down. There is really only one rule to follow after that, talk about her!!! Don’t interrogate her with a million questions, but be interested in her. Ask where she works, and if she likes her job. Anything is fine as long as it is about her and not too obvious.

The direct approach is guaranteed to be successful 100% of the time in any strip club across the nation. However, in the real world where women are unpredictable, you should be prepared to have a curve ball thrown at you. You may ask to sit down and she says, “I am sorry, I am only here to spend time with my friends.” Or, “I am seeing someone,” or she will respond directly to your direct approach and say, “I am not interested.” There is a very fine line between her ass and harassment. If you are shot down, simply thank her, smile, and walk away. Going back to you friends at your table and telling them she is a lesbian is optional.

The best way to avoid those door slamming responses is to select your target carefully. Before you approach for the first time, make your presence known. The best way is eye contact; if she smiles, that is like faxing your application, then being called in for the interview.

THE PICKUP LINE

Another approach is the utilization of the pickup line. If done correctly you can avoid the need for prior eye contact. If you are in an establishment where the competition is fierce, the delay in waiting for eye contact could be fatal. You may have mere seconds from the time the target is spotted and your window of opportunity closes. Your only resort may be a pickup line. However, the pickup line should not be attempted by the novice, only trained professionals who can properly execute the pickup line should attempt.  Do not attempt the pickup line while consuming alcohol beverages. The key to the pick up line is to make it obvious, and funny. Use it only as an ice breaker. It tells the woman you are interested and funny. I am not talking about the, “Hey Baby, come here often, can I buy you a drink?” circa 1970’s line. I am talking about an original remark that elicits a laugh from the target female. Once she laughs at how ridiculous your line is there is a thirty second opening to laugh with her and then introduce yourself. If she doesn’t laugh simply say, “I didn’t think that would work, give me 5 minutes and I will be back with a better one.”

THE JR. HIGH APPROACH

As a last resort you can always employ a technique that was quite effective in Jr. High. You simply have your friend introduce you. It can be as simple as “My friend would really like to meet you.” It sounds corny, but sometimes you need that third party to come in and negotiate on your behalf.  It may sound juvenile, but you can think of it has hiring an attorney or an agent, in some situations it is the best of all the methods.

FLY OR DIE

The common factor of all three approaches is simply a way to meet women in a casual manner that shows her that you are interested. She can then comfortably choose to accept your overture or blow you from the skies with her not-in-heat seeking missile.

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